I’m dedicating today’s article to a friend of mine, I’ll call him Tom, although that’s not his real name. Tom is fit, good-looking, stylish, and rich. A real catch by most women’s standards. Tom doesn’t have to learn how to attract women. For him attraction happens naturally. Why am I talking about Tom then?
Although Tom has a lot of things going for him, he is completely oblivious to the signals women send his way. He cannot figure out when a girl likes him. Most of the time, he walks away from gorgeous women that are dying to have his babies because he doesn’t think they are into him. Tom, like a lot of other men, has trouble spotting women’s indicators of interest. If you are like Tom, today is your lucky day!
This article goes over the signals females send out when they are interested in you. Below you will find a video that explains a few of the signs of attraction that women display when they meet a man they like. Under the video, I’ve added several more attraction indicators that women can send your way. Enjoy!
Her lips:
- Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
- Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
- She wets her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area.
- She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
- She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward.
Her eyes:
- She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
- She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, this is often combined with a smile and some eye contact.
- She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
- While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
- Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates interest in you.
- Her eyes are fixated on you while you speak.
- She stares down at your lips as you are speaking.
Her hair:
- She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a stroking motion.
- She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
- She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders.
Her clothing:
- If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
- The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.
- She is fixing, patting, preening, or smoothing her outfit to make herself look better.
While she is seated:
- She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on you.
- She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
- She is sitting with her legs open.
- She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her thigh.
- Her legs are rubbing against each other.
- Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table.
- Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
Her hands:
- She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
- While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
- She rubs her wrists up and down.
- She sits with one hand touching one of her breasts.
- She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. (This indicates that she’s thinking about you and her relating in some way)
- She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table.
- She plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
- She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you (This is a strong indicator that she likes you)
- She is pretending to look at her watch as you pass her.
Her voice:
- She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
- She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
- She laughs in unison with you.
- In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
Miscellaneous:
- She mirrors your body language and body positions.
- Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
- She giggles at your jokes, even though some may not be funny.
- She leans into you (pecking). She touches you.
- She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
- She leans over and speaks into her friend’s ear, just like in junior high school.
- She is standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle, one foot behind the other, hips slightly thrust forward.
- She follows you around, hovering in your vicinity.
- At a party – every once in a while she seems to appear out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you move to another spot, soon she appears near your new location.
- She bumps into you accidentally.
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I would never look at just one thing she is doing, that would be a mistake and you could easily fall into the trap of over-analyzing everything a woman does. Still, to answer your question it means she is trying to get more comfortable because she finds the conversation interesting. Having said that, remember that there is no ONE sign, but more of a combination of these signals that will tell you weather a woman is attracted to you. And sometimes there will not be any, so always assume that if a woman you just met is talking to you – she is interested in you.
when you are talking to a woman and you are both standing facing each other what does it mean if the woman crosses her legs?
The clip above is from a two part series on the UK’s Channel 4. The show was called “Body Talk” Unfortunately, I don’t know where you can find it. I had the second part of the show on my old computer, but the hard drive crashed and all I have now is the Youtube clip. But you can check out this website: http://www.thebookoftells.com/BodyTalk_Main.htm for more information and maybe try a few Google searches.
Where can I get more videos from the same team as the video posted above? That is gold, pure gold!